What is Ourtime?

The online dating site Ourtime belongs to the Match Group and thus to one of Europe's largest providers of dating sites. 

Ourtime is specially designed for singles over 50, whose motto is:

Petra Frömsdorf
Expert since 2011
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The Ourtime success in numbers

Ourtime is aimed at young-at-heart singles around 50.

The success of the Ourtime dating platform is impressive:

  • Already 2,000,000 singles over 50 have registered with Ourtime.
  • Currently, 25,000 members from Ireland are active on Ourtime 
  • The Ourtime matchmaking principle

    The platform was developed for singles aged 50 and over who are looking for serious contacts.

    Ourtime focuses on the fact that 

  • singles 50plus find a partner in their area.
  • new friendships are forged.
  • older singles find people with the same values and interests.
  • you can also meet in real life after getting to know each other online.
  • Ourtime uses different approaches to suggest the most perfect partners to its users.

    • Members regularly receive suitable contact suggestions. This is based on your profile data and the questions you answered during the registration process. The suggested profiles are as close as possible to your personal wishes and interests.
    • The classic partner search: You can use the search or filter functions to specify details that your desired partner should meet, e.g., age, region of residence, hobbies. You will then be presented with corresponding partner suggestions. 

    How serious is Ourtime? Fake profiles or real singles?

    Ourtime is definitely a trustworthy dating platform.

    The provider itself emphasizes that it attaches the greatest importance to a serious community and the safety of its members.

    The following measures are taken to ensure this:

    • Using advanced SSL encryption techniques, your personal data is protected at all times.
    • All photos and profiles that are uploaded are checked by hand. This way, Ourtime sorts out fake profiles and scammers directly.

    Our tip: If you come across a suspicious profile despite the security precautions, report it to customer service. The team will react immediately. A check and all necessary measures will be initiated.

    If you are over 50 and looking for a serious dating site, Ourtime is the right place for you. The platform is safe, discreet and versatile!

    How Ourtime.ie works

    Four steps to your dream partner on Ourtime:

    • You register with Ourtime and set up your profile.
    • You answer the questions about yourself and your dream partner.
    • You receive the first partner suggestions.
    • You can make contact or are contacted.

    Registering with Ourtime

    Registering with Ourtime is straightforward and the only thing you need is an active email address. Ourtime will send an email to this address after registration, which you will need to confirm to complete the registration.

    During the new registration, your Ourtime coach will then ask you a few questions, the answers to which will later be added to your profile.

    The following will be asked:

  • Personal data (e.g. place of residence, age)
  • Your requirements on your dream partner
  • The Ourtime login for members

    If you are already a member of Ourtime, you can register directly on the website by using the login button at the top right of the homepage.

    The Ourtime personality test

    ... is virtually non-existent. In the registration process, you only must answer 13 questions about yourself. These include your height, children, hair colour and length, marital status, education level and interests. Then you are asked 5 questions about your dream partner (age, height, education, children, smoking).

    Ourtime does not rely on the matching principle based on a personality test. At Ourtime you are in demand and must deal with your profile in great detail. Only with a well-maintained and carefully completed profile does the partner search on Ourtime work.


    Advantages & Disadvantages

    • Great choice of 50 plus singles
    • International contacts also possible
    • Regular offline-dating events
    • Voice and video calls possible
    • Detailed search functions available
    • No singles under 50
    • Not suitable for casual dating

    Who is Ourtime suitable for?

    Ourtime is perfect for mature singles over 50 who are looking for a serious dating site and for their dream partner for the second half of life.

    These singles over 50 and seniors who are looking for a committed partnership form the largest group among Ourtime members.

    Older singles who are looking for a flirt or friendship can also find what they are looking for here. Likewise, gays over the age of 50 like to be active on Ourtime.

    Good for your purpose? Good for your age group?
    Life partner
    Flirt & Date
    Intimate encounters
    18-25 years
    25-50 years
    Over 50 years

    Age structures of members

    Only singles who are at least 50 years old can register with Ourtime.

    Therefore, it is not surprising that the largest group of members is 55 years and older. The average age for women and men is about 64.

    There are slightly more women registered in the 50 to 55 age group, otherwise the ratio of both sexes is quite balanced.


    Ourtime Experiences & Rating

    Sufficient members? 3-5
    Profile quality: 3-5
    Flirt-Action:
    Arrange real dates: 2-5
    Service:
    Fairness:
    Customer support:

    Ourtime in Practice

    If you have registered with Ourtime, your profile might look something like this:

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    Your Ourtime profile

    Every visitor to your profile can already get a pretty good picture of you - provided you've also spruced up your profile.

    They can also see how you imagine your dream partner.

    Singles interested in you can find the following in your profile: 

    • My pictures - your profile photo and up to 8 additional pictures
    • My voice - describe your personality using your voice
    • My personal ad - a few personal words are sufficient (but please do not give any personal data such as address or telephone number)
    • My answers - to questions as: Employed? Early retirement? Retired?, If I had an extra hour per day..., My dream holiday is..., My hidden talent..., The things I always carry with me are..., This show or book would make me cancel my dinner plans is...
    • I am - main information as height, educational level, smoking habits, children, want to have children. Other information as marital status, languages, hair length, hair colour, ethnicity, religion, interests, sports, gender identity, eyes, weight, income etc.
    • I am looking for - criteria that your dream partner should fulfil and qualities that are important to you in a partner

    A photo is a must at Ourtime! Nothing works at Ourtime without a photo. If you don't upload a photo, you won't be able to access your profile. It's best to choose a picture in advance and upload it to your PC. Choose a picture that best expresses your personality and lifestyle.

    Ourtime Photo

    Visibility of your profile
    Your Ourtime profile is not only visible to registered users on Ourtime. The special feature of Ourtime is that your profile is also shown to people who are registered on Match and on 50+ dating services that use the same platform.

    If you do not want this, you have to take action yourself. In the "My Account" section, deactivate the following checkbox: "Maximize your chances of meeting people by having your profile also shown to members 50+ in our general dating services".

    How to get in touch

    At Ourtime you have several ways to contact other members:

  • Discover: You can see "the 100 picks of the day", who is online and your matches.
  • Ourtime Discover
  • Search: You will receive suggestions of members from your area who might be a good match for you. Like the profile or send a love note.
  • Ourtime Search
  • Shuffle: You are presented with "the 100 picks of the day" (profiles) that you can like (click on the heart) or dislike (click on the x).
  • Ourtime Shuffle
  • Activities: Take part in offline activities such as tasting events or coaching workshops. This way you can get to know other Ourtime singles in a relaxed way.
  • Views: If you like a visitor to your profile, just write to her or him.
  • Likes: Here you can see who has given you a "like". The easiest way to do this is to write to someone who obviously likes you.
  • Messages: Here you will find messages from Ourtime members who are obviously interested in you. Write back!
  • Ourtime voice and video call

    Like on other dating platforms, the video date function of Ourtime is becoming increasingly popular.

    It is especially helpful for reserved singles to first get an impression of the other person. 

    If this is too fast for you, you can also arrange a voice call and talk to your flirt on the phone.

    You can activate the function to start a voice or video call in the settings of your profile.

    Ourtime Voice and Video Call

    Good to know: Ourtime attaches great importance to discretion! None of your personal data, such as your telephone number, will be passed on to third parties.

    The Ourtime app for mobile flirting on the go

    With the dating app from Ourtime, you can be flexible in your partner search and never miss any interesting contacts, even when you're on the go.

    Simply download the Ourtime app for free from the Apple App Store for iPhone or the Google Play Store for Android.

    These functions are available:

  • Search for interesting singles
  • Read and answer messages
  • Find new contacts in your area
  • Our tip:
    It is best to register with Ourtime on your desktop and fill out your profile there. This makes the registration process much clearer. Then download the app to your smartphone. 

    Additional functions at Ourtime

    We like these functions: 

    • Photo boost: This feature pushes your profile to the front of other singles. This means that you will be displayed much more often to Ourtime users who match you. This gives you more attention and contact opportunities. We have listed the costs below.
    • Incognito mode: If the hustle and bustle on Ourtime becomes too much for you, you can use this function to make yourself invisible. You can visit profiles without the person noticing and you will not appear in the search results. Unfortunately, the incognito mode is also subject to a fee.

    Ourtime Mission

    Even before "filling in" the questionnaire, Ourtime presents you with its trust principles. Ourtime wants its community to adhere to the following principles, which we find commendable

  • Be respectful 
  • Be genuine 
  • Stay safe 
  • Don't compromise 
  • Ourtime Mission

    Ourtime Experiences

    Ourtime Ireland is really only suitable for singles over 50. Younger people looking for a partner cannot register with Ourtime and are referred directly to its sister site Match.

    Experiences Pro Ourtime 

    • Ourtime is a multi-award winning dating site for singles over 50.
    • Registration is easy and the site is easy to use even for Internet beginners.
    • Members and also our testers were enthusiastic about the customer support.
    • Ourtime offers many great functions for starting contacts or flirting.
    • Fakes are hard to find here. 

    Experiences Con Ourtime

    • Ourtime is only partly fun in the free version.  
    • The market for dating over 50 is very competitive. Ourtime has to stand up to a lot of competition.

    What’s Free at Ourtime?

    • Create a profile
    • Personality test
    • Search on your own
    • Receive suggestions
    • View photos
    • Send a “hello”
    • Send mails (limited)
    • Read mails (limited)

    Ourtime Costs & Prices 2024

    These are the current prices for Ourtime Premium memberships in Ireland (standard rates):

    DurationCost per monthIn total
    1 month
    Premium
    39.99€ 39.99
    3 months
    Premium
    24.99€ 74.97
    6 months
    Premium
    19.99€ 119.94

    Attention undecided singles!
    With the 1-month subscription, you can watch Ourtime at your leisure for a month without having to make a long-term commitment right away!

    Boosts:
    With the boosts, you ensure that your profile is seen by more members. This way you get two times more activity on your profile, i.e. more views, likes, and messages. Boost prices: 1 Boost immediately active EUR 1,99 - 5 Boosts to use whenever you want EUR 7,95 - 10 Boosts to use whenever you want EUR 11,89 

    Ourtime Boosts

    Love note:
    With a Love note, your message is displayed as a priority. This guarantees that you will not be overlooked and increases your chances of receiving a reply. Love note prices: 5 Love notes EUR 7,99 - 15 Love notes EUR 19,99 - 30 Love notes EUR 29,99 

    Ourtime Love Notes

    Incognito mode:
    Be invisible! View profiles without being seen yourself. Incognito mode prices: 24 hours EUR 1,99 -  1 month EUR 9,99 

    Ourtime Incognito Mode

    Ourtime Alternatives










    Ourtime Test Result

    Ourtime is one of the dating portals especially for the 50+ generation. Like its sister site Match, Ourtime is convincing in terms of security and data protection. Ourtime users appreciate the good customer service and the balanced price-performance ratio.  

    Ourtime Facts and figures 2024
    Active members25,000
    Male to female ratio41 : 59
    Average age64
    Membership levelaverage
    Intentionfriendship, flirt, and life partner search
    Chances for successaverage
    Starting priceGBP 19.99
    AddressMatch.com LLC 8750 N Central Expy, Suite 1400 Dallas TX 75231, United States
    E-mailcontact@ourtime.org.uk

    Ourtime Ireland is an appealing site and also suitable for inexperienced internet users. If you are over 50 and looking for a partner, take a look at Ourtime Ireland. 


    FAQ Ourtime Ireland

    Do you still have an unanswered question about Ourtime Ireland?

    Here are our questions and answers about Ourtime.ie:

    How can I pay at Ourtime?

    At Ourtime you can pay by PayPal, direct debit or credit card (Visa, Mastercard, American Express).

    Can I cancel Ourtime at any time?

    Yes, you can cancel your membership with Ourtime at any time. Please note the notice period.

    How can I cancel Ourtime?

    Cancellation via a computer: Go to “My account settings” > “My subscription” > and complete the renewal cancellation form.

    Cancellation via the mobile website: Go to “My profile” > “Settings” > “My subscription” > “Membership management” and complete the renewal cancellation form.

    Can Ourtime be revoked?

    Yes, that is possible. You can cancel your contract up to 14 days after signing without giving any reason. All you need to do is send a short text message by letter or e-mail. 

    Will my Ourtime membership be renewed automatically?

    Yes, at the end of the initial period, your membership will be automatically renewed for successive periods of the same length at full price (non-discounted price). During the minimum term, the easiest way to cancel the automatic renewal is on the “My account settings” page.

    How can I turn off email notifications from Ourtime?

    Go to “My account settings” > “Notifications” in your profile. Here you can deactivate all unwanted notifications.

    How can I delete my Ourtime profile?

    To delete your profile: Go to “My account settings” > “Pause my profile” > “To permanently delete your profile, please click here”. Your profile will be removed within 24 hours.

    How can I block another member on Ourtime?

    You can block someone and thus prevent this member from contacting you again. There are two ways to do this. 1. go to the profile of the member in question. Click on “...” > Block this person > Block this member. 2. go to the member's message. Click on “...” > Block this person > Block this member.

    Is Ourtime free for women?

    Regardless of gender, everyone can use Ourtime free of charge as a basic member. Premium membership is subject to a fee for everyone.

    Is Ourtime and Match the same thing?

    Ourtime and Match are two different services. While Match is aimed at anyone over the age of 18, Ourtime focuses on singles over 50.


    Petra Frömsdorf
    Petra Frömsdorf
    Petra Frömsdorf has been monitoring the world of online dating sites since 2011. In the media she is considered the leading expert on the topic of "Ourtime review".